Are You Addicted To Love?


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Everyone needs love in one way or another. We were created to love and to be loved. So, you should never apologize for desiring to give love and to receive love. It just so happens that on the journey towards meeting the 1, you may have ran into some people who did not love you the way you deserved. There may have been or will be some who will love you like you deserve, but it doesn’t mean they’re the 1. The right 1 will not only love you like you deserve to be loved, but they will love you in ways you’ve never been loved!


You should be addicted to love because love is definitely addicted to you. Of course that love starts with you loving yourself. It has to be a personal thing first. Once you love yourself, you will then be able to better identify if someone is loving you right or if they’re not loving you enough. Some of you have found yourself falling in love quickly b/c of how much love you are ready to give. However, everyone is not qualified to receive your love on a relationship level.


Love is very powerful and it can cause you to do so much for a person. However, love is no fool. Love won’t cause a person to continuously accept foolishness for the sake of keeping a relationship! Love has too much integrity for that! So, don’t get caught up in saying you did it for love. Love is very forgiving, but love is not blind.


Don’t confuse feelings with love! Love is not blind! Feelings can blind you, but love is what opens your eyes! So, you should be addicted to love, but not your feelings! Love will take great care of you! Love will help you see things for how they truly are! Love commands respect, and it will not settle for anything below it’s worth b/c authentic love attracts itself!


The problem that occurs sometimes is when feelings try to attract feelings or feelings try to attract love! It can get messy when the feelings start talking in place of love. You have every right to love because it’s already in you.


Your love does not look good on everybody! You need the right 1! Yes, we have the human condition, and you’re not a robot. So, you do have feelings. Feelings are natural. We have good and bad feelings, but the danger is when our feelings lead us in the wrong direction.


This is why we aren’t to be led by feelings, but we must be led by our spirit. Pray that you will be. Feelings will tell you what you want to hear, but love will tell you what you need to hear! Listen to love b/c it will tell you the truth! Feelings will tell you to go when you need to stay and tell you to stay when you need to go! Love has a healthy balance. Love is sober, and it will tell you the truth, especially when you love yourself first!


Some people jump from relationship to relationship and ignore obvious red flags all because they’re in search of love! They may look for it in all the wrong places. They are looking for someone to fill a void that only God can fill. You don’t need to do that. You don’t have to go around chasing love because love will chase you!


So, you should get addicted to love because it’s already in you. Love will arrest you when you meet the 1. You don’t have to worry about how long, all you need to know is that it’s coming. Feelings will never be able to take the place of love! Feelings come and go, but love is forever!


In the meantime, be proud that you still have love to give. Yes, you have much love to give! Regardless of what has happened or has not happened, the story goes on. Your love story matters, and it is still being lived out!


You have much love to give to the right 1. They will want and need every bit of it! Don’t be fooled by the delay because love will find you and overtake you!


As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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2 Comments on “Are You Addicted To Love?”

  1. Keisha B. Says:

    This is definitely what I needed!!! This was confirmation I was waiting on. Thank you!!


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